Is What I am Feeling Normal?

Learning that your child has special needs is not an easy thing for anyone to face, and right now, you may be experiencing a roller coaster of emotions. While everyone handles the diagnosis in their own way, certain reactions are common for parents.

For the majority of parents, the period immediately following the diagnosis is filled with uncertainty and doubt. For example, you may worry about how the condition will impact your child’s life whether or not you are equipped to handle all the responsibilities of raising a child with a special need. If your child has health complications, you may have additional fears and concerns.

It is natural to experience denial, anger, depression, and other stages of grief as you adjust to all of the new information about the health of your child. Even for parents who knew they were at a higher risk of having a child with special needs, acceptance can be difficult at first, or even seem impossible.

Know that the range of emotion you may be feeling is normal. More importantly, know that you are not alone. There are many sources of support available to new parents with a child with special needs. In time and with the right support, you can expect the intensity of painful emotions to subside, and new, positive feelings to take their place. One of the best places to turn for encouragement and reassurance is other parents of children with special needs. Often, other parents can help you look beyond your baby’s diagnosis and delight in the joys of parenthood. They have been through what you are going through and can be an invaluable source of support.

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